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QOTT (Southern Hemisphere Edition): What is your favorite brand of vegemite?
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It wasn't until last summer I started to realize how pathetic I was being, and made a conscious effort to slap some sense into myself. Now I look back in shame at how I wasted those years of my life.
The sad thing is I had no excuse. I was a fully-grown adult when I did these things (mid-20s). And I used to know right from wrong. Before covid, I thought I was fully supportive of LGBT people and had several gay and transgender friends.
Can I ever atone for the rotten things that I did? What should I do now.
>virgin
>unmarried
it's so over and yet it will never end
>>35601695
>are you soft and cuddly
>what's your favorite bear
Reminder: This gen is for cis homosexual females (lesbians). All trans-related or bisexual posts are considered off-topic and should be directed to other generals or threads.
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old threat:
>>35579577
Last Thread: >>35583516
>QOTT 1: Ever done any home renovation or do you look forward to doing any when you buy a home with your beloved someday? Any skills that’ll come in handy if you choose to do so?
>QOTT 2: Vent or rave about the past month now that April is coming to an end. Maybe someone will praise you, maybe anon will bully you. But you know you want ANY interaction in the form of you (You)s…
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Goal of the thread: At the end of the day, try to write a journal entry listing positive experiences you had throughout the day, cute things you've seen, things that were nice, you get the idea.
Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!
>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice
Generic advice won't necessarily help you in particular, but for those it does it is an essential foundation to build future progress on, not a miracle cure. Do not underestimate the effects subtle changes to your lifestyle can have. Try first, keep us posted on your progress, build from there.
We are *always* short on self help resources, so if anything was useful to you, let us know!
Since the OP is getting too long I moved all resources into their own post, see below!
## RESOURCE LINKS:
Resource link paste: https://sntry.cc/sig-resources-2024-04
General advice from Anons: https://sntry.cc/sig-tips-2024-04
Posts from other sites (markdown format): https://sntry.cc/sig-posts-2024-04
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QOTT: In essence, what is a boymoder? A miserable pile of secrets? A being scared of the outside? That kinda philosophical mumbo jumbo, if you get me.
QOTT what is the best thing about being a twink
pic not rel but learn it anyways troons
Last /bmg episode
>>35538045
QOTT: What are your favorite games? Any reason why they're your favorite?
pic unrel.
thread for cis women dating trans women & trans women dating cis women
QOTT: describe a time that you've been in love
NO ARGUING!! NO DRAMA!! NO TRANSPHOBIA!! NO T4T POSTING!! NO YAOI!!
if you don't like c4t/t4c get out!! not every space is made for you!! there are other places you can be!! please respect the purpose of this thread and be nice
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How do I look off putting and weird?
Being a woman is so hard...
Seriously, why the fuck is the universe/god/high power doing this to me? I cringe every time in the morning about the fact that I have to live as a tranny. I want to be cis so badly omg.
Gender ideology convinced me I needed to be a queer degenerate to act on my female side. However I’ve since taken up psychoanalysis, and I can attest that I’ve met no man without a female side and no woman without a male side. They may be repping that side, but it still shows. We are all kind of ‘non-binary,’ that’s just human nature.
Humans can invent any social norms, any genders, and any roles. Those are but socially constructed games. However, the classic two-sex model is blessed by the Lord Himself and is thus pure. Men and women have differing skeletons and pelvis sizes, that’s just objective. All the stupid gender games are merely things He lets happen, but doesn’t participate in Himself.
Now it is true that pagans (atheists are but a subtype of pagan) are free from Christian norms since they weren’t baptized in the Church, however you must ask yourself anon. Is this gender stuff really worth it? Do you really need to adhere to this ideology and troon out to find happiness in life? Take a moment to reflect, anon.
Mirror edition
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QOTT: do you avoid looking at mirrors?
Previous thread: >>35403270
Comics we know of, all of which are named Kaito Shuno
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/edit/u9WMp8xnWArb0-xZ7ljJAjaa/
Read-only link for sharing:
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/view/Mr+SCan-wtlJ2lJGQ4iKAXerD5iSgI3MseRF0hUoR24/present/
I don't care about the story as long as she draws porn
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/edit/StsXhwzarK-GGDG3P2GvlP6a/
Read-only link for sharing:
>https://cryptpad.fr/code/#/2/code/view/iiU2+aw-U3ZC2OX+PyCBUckUdxO+qw4thCGv2t5G5ro/present/
Feel free to recommend new webcomics not in the cryptpad, but don't be lazy, please include:
>Name of comic
>Link to it
>Short description
>Whether or not it's NSFW
>Days it updates.
If you're not sure if a comic belongs here because maybe it's not LGBT enough, post updates anyway. We won't know about it if no one posts it!
If you see something wrong in the cryptad, just edit it!
https://voca.ro/1cc4J1vAXvu6
It's clear but has a iron taste
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8955456/
anything else i should know before stopping hrt? also when i get back on estrogen should i take a T blocker like spiro? ive currently only been using EV injections
>lose 4 lbs
>immediately lose fat in ass and hips
>waist stays just as wide
HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE WHY THE FUCK DO I HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THIS???????????????
>twinkhon passoid
>been out and on HRT for 8 years
>want to make more trans girl friends
>they're all horribly cringe with no sense of self-awareness
>they all dress like hons and have no shame for wearing ill-fitting garments way outside their age range
>they all act like the most /r/traa uwu faggots you've ever seen
>every
>single
>one
Why is it so hard to find trans girls who actually just act like normal girls? It probably doesn't help that I've never met a trans girl who's been transitioning as long as I have, they're all <2 years baby trans.
p.s.:
80% of you would kill yourselfes after a day in russia or ukraine, if you are gay or trans
Also, does your neck pass, anon?
Anyone on here traditionally good looking for a man (5’10+, not faggy hair, not girly boy industries hot topic closet, etc.
god im fucking pathetic, why couldnt i just be normal. why did my mom have to reject me. why do i still like her despite all that. god im just a waste of oxygen
• Help, advice, guidance on meds and dosages
• HRT related medical experiences and research
• Availability and pricing of medications
• Rational and scientific discussion
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>dont wear underwear
>dont wear a bra
>dont work / NEET
>keep penis so I can pee standing up
>keep tits so I can stim
>andromode in comfy baggy clothes with lots of pockets
>men now think my autistic traits are cute
>can now socialise with women without being creepy autist
>nobody has any expectations of me
>trolling online has never been this fun as a trap
I’ve got no inner female identity and dont claim to be a woman eithet. I literally just maximise my autism comfort. I fully support anyone taking E/T so they become less stressed out by their AGAB sensory issues
What the fuck can I do? I have a 1.5 inch plug that feels AMAZING and stretches me out but it only works because the part that my butt actually clenches around is really skinny, I'm literally too tight to actually get pounded by anything and even when I warm myself up with that plug and try my best to take it I just can barely handle it at all
I'm pretty sure I had a fissure too because my butt was tender and hurt just constantly for like 2-3 weeks and it finally let up recently, I'm really just at a loss
I want nothing more than to let a cute horny guy go to town on me but I'm just too tight and I don't know what to do about it that doesn't involve hurting myself
pls halp
>join Uni lgbt club
>nice to have other trannies around
>all of them are DID and have plural systems
What do?
I just wanted to mother some babytrans
can't change bone structure
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>age, gender, location
>letters
>interests
>looking for
>not looking for
>contact
>ugly chasers are sweet and great but ugly and dont satisfy me
>t4t grosses me out and most are hons aka same as ugly chasers
>straight men wont want me
>women think im a freak or threat
so my only option is to let douchebag hot guys use me and never find true love? i was ghosted again today when everything was going well
I feel estatic that I got to rearrange the holes of a Aryan man
-Pre existing estrogen dominant hormone imbalance prior to HRT (E above 50 pg / ml prior to transition)
-Wide hips
-Bone issues (mostly scoliosis)
-Autism or autism adjacent
-Kleinfelter phenotype
-Weak puberty, cis pooner face prior to transition
Apart from kleinfelter and AIS, what other conditions result in this? I'm starting to think a significant number of trans women have some kind of intersex condition
>dick has trouble getting hard now and I can barely mastrubate
Yeah, it's over for me.
>never do makeup
>havent voice trained
>boymode
>have ftm core haircut
>get she/her and ma'am
"if you just do hrt then you will never get she/her"
i was told just doing hrt wasn't enough or am i just that much of a hon now that ppl are nice to me lol
What do you think?
Spadesons need to be stopped. This has gone on long enough. I will not participate in your creepy race fetishism. I am made to be forcibly feminized and leashed up like a dog. Not this weird shit.
>Trans women banned from female wards under changes welcomed by campaigners
>Both Tory and Labour health secretaries want to ban trans women/men from "single sex" wards and put trannies in separate rooms (that the NHS doesn't have).
>It is declared not discrimination, to segregate trans people
This is because Bottoms want hyper-masculine men and refuse to fuck each other.
They write books on how to do this.
The converted Tops are 100% of the victims of predators just like anyone else would be.
The Bottoms tell them they've always wanted a relationship but that ops keep ditching them
Tops go buy this lie and think "I'm not like that asshole!"
Enabling bottoms is enabling predators who pump and dump people
>Homeschooled so the globohomo elites couldn't brainwash me
>Never vaxxed as a kid so mercury couldn't poison my brain
>Ate organic food so the gmos couldn't turn me gay
>Still ended up a tranny
Its not fair, my family did everything they could for me and I still ended up this way. Why?
>feel a mixture of pity and disgust towards them for being attracted to someone as gross and lowly as me
how am I supposed to find a boyfriend like this?
Like, I like to dress up as a cute clowngirl atleast once a week, and sometimes I make lewd clowngirl content where I... actually I'll spare you the details.
But would this be like something people would find weird? I'm worried that that, plus me being trans would like make people dislike me.
>QOTT #1: Do you have any pets? Post pics.
>QOTT #2: Last time you went out to a nightclub?
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FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
Yeah... sorry. I know I'm not good enough. It won't happen again.
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out memebers of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/
Oh honey...
I kneel
You were right to target her. I am sorry.
From this and what I'm sure is everyones shared experience with bisexuals I propose that bisexuals come in two types, which I will refer to as flexible monophiles and biphiles.
Flexible monophilic bisexuals are either exclusively androphilic or gynephilic, but their androphilia and gynephilia isn't very picky about biological sex and extends into gender non conforming members of the other sex. Bisexual men who are exclusively into femboys are the peak example of "flexible monosexuals".
Biphilic bisexuals have both androphilic and gynephilic brain patterns. They are attracted to gender conforming men AND gender conforming women, they have a split attraction and their sexuality has distinct gynephilic and androphilic components.
I propose that all people fall into the flexible monophile label to at least some small extent, there will be at least one person of their non preferred sex that has enough cross sex traits to arouse them.
>On Monday, the Kansas Legislature met to vote on Senate Bill 233, a bill that would ban gender-affirming care for transgender youth and impose strict restrictions on social transitions in any publicly funded buildings, including schools. The Legislature had previously passed the bill, but it was vetoed by Governor Laura Kelly. Republicans, who had enough votes to override the veto, were expected to do so and ban gender-affirming care for transgender youth. However, at the last moment, two Republicans, Representatives Susan Concannon and Jesse Borjon, unexpectedly broke ranks and voted to sustain the veto, preventing the bill from being signed into law.
>Representative Concannon, who had previously voted in favor of the bill, reversed her decision and stepped forward to explain why, stating, “We hear of bullying and ask authorities to make it stop. We hear about mental health, about suicide, and ask why. We’re not listening to the impacted youth. Government involvement is not the answer. I voted for this bill in the past due to concerns about the surgery. With further consideration, this bill is vague beyond the surgery. These decisions belong between the team of professionals and the parents. The youth need our help, not government overreach. For all those who reached out, I hear you, and vote to sustain the governor’s veto.”
>hardly ever misgendered
>still too afraid to girlmode
what do i do. how do i fix myself. i don't want to be a weird uncanny girlboything forever i just want to be a woman why couldn't i have been born cis this sucks so much i hate it i hate it i hate it i
>t. trans that plans to get the axe wound to increase my dating pool. also picrel got axe wound
1. Harder het dating scene causes disillusionment with women (see picrel)
2. Porn being so accessible opens up for new kinks
3. Cloested gays are less likely to be closeted nowadays
>happily living as a 26 year old troon away from my religious family
>oldest brother at 33 starts transitioning
does this happen to your country? How many troons can be in one family? I thought I was the only one.
>Gay shit
>Go to clg
>Actually lust over women
Wtf I thought ftms loved women
tfw 5'8 its so fucking over
>become a normal twinkhon with a bf
>still have male gaze
who else a gazehon?
My entire life has been spent trying to stop being poor and a single bad month sets me back three. At this rate i will never be able to live as a woman even if i fucking pass which is already a million to one shot. Im just, tired.
Sorry for the unprompted rant and fuck me i guess.
>transgender femboy faggot
>24 yo very mentally ill but at least i have my meds ig
>out of friends, all relationships toxic and abandoned
>p much only know one person anymore
>go visit friend at his house
>realize i can just start doing things i want to do in a relationship with him anyway
>maybe he will just be okay with it
>decide this is a good idea bc fuck it
>recently decided im no longer above humiliating myself for attention
>too affection starved too give a shit anymore
>wear skimpy cute clothes just normal enough to not sus out his senpai
>start planning out and packing him meals to bring him on his days off work
>bake him shit out of cheap ingredients but make it look nice kinda
>beg for affection fingers crossed
>hes down wtf
>get petted, told nice things like good girl
>cuddles, pets, holds me all weekend
>break down, cry a lot
>kinda just keep saying please and im sorry a lot
>promises to take care of me when he realizes how broken i am
>feel pretty guilty about it but too willing to try one last time at being treated nicely to give a shit or not risk it
>to be fair hes the only person ive known all my life who also hasnt yet left or ever been shit to me
>get my guts scrambled all weekend and invited over for the next
>treats me to my comfort food, which is expensive, esp via delivery and in our area
>keeps saying nice things to me over and over while petting me
>so, /t/, how did *you* decide to "just" save yourself this week? :3
>t. tranny boy who is currently being chased by a bisexual divorced father
>Says I'll never be a woman
>Siblings have distanced themselves from me
>Dad ignored it all
>I boymode out of fear of being abandoned
Everyone still genders me male like nothing ever happened and I'm not on hrt
Why the fuck do I dream about a reality that'll never happen? The majority of my dreams are now of me in girlmode and I feel like I'm being tortured in my sleep
if not, how would that make you feel?
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she kinda wants to keep me tamed like being super sex and touchy around me handjobs are basically free, bj are cheap (freshly showerd would do), no questions asked the girl deserves many cummings for her actions.
how to do it?
when we have normal sex she sometimes moans deaply and leaks a bit of girl joy, but I wonder if I could boost it by finding a way of touching or making her touch her fempeen.
Picrel are just gay men in denial right?
>despite treating her with nothing but derision she still tries to go right by him and even starts developing feelings for him
>he slowly starts to respect her after she heroically plunged herself into dangers most rookies would sway away from
>lots of lighthearted comedic scenes of confusion due to their generational gap
>she explains to him youth trends and trans topics to which he just replies with "getting too old for this shit" but keeps listening to her anyway
>he even starts defending her when the other guys at the precinct crack jokes about her
>QOTT: Would you hail Satan if he promised you a body of your choice?
