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hazelkitt

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>force me to do the bare minimum for a lifestyle that I want
first of all, subs aren't necessarily asking for you to buy them a god damn lamborghini and spoil them with gifts, they're asking to become your dependent. That's all.

But what I find about your attitude the most wretched is that you reduce a sub's love to laziness, like it means absolutely nothing and you get nothing for taking care of a person. If that is truly how you feel then by all means stay the fuck away from this kind of life. When I was much younger I fell in love with a loser groomer motherfucker online, but all I thought about was moving in with him and being literally adopted or being his pet. It wasn't a sick fetishist kind of thing, it's because I genuinely loved him and I tended to his every emotional need and gave him everything he asked from me because I was so grateful for him seeing beauty in me where no one else had seen any. It was not stupid, it was not "lazy", because I gave my heart and my entire soul. My heart is not cheap, and it may sound like an easy way out of hardship to you but that relationship was in itself a hardship. It was not easy to argue with him and constantly try to make him pleased, and keep him in a mental state where he was prepared to love me. I had to make a lot of internal sacrifices, I gave up a lot of my future and my potential for growth just to keep him loving me, and then it was actually him, (a man) who took that for granted and began lying to me so he could have his cake and eat it too.

This world is so frightening, and you incels on this board all want strong bonds, someone to have and to hold, you all want a relationship with teeth, you want to FEEL something, yet you want a partner who is completely independent from you in every way? You want a partner who has zero needs and is not pathetic, yet you want it to feel REAL and INTENSE? You can't have both.

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