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>she was projecting who she thought she should be as a woman and as my girlfriend. As she finds her own identity in the work she's doing, she realized this has changed

Yeah welcome to women, their entire identity is like soft plastic, it bends and warps and changes on a whim. This is because they identify mostly with how they feel, and never how they think.

If she had the capability of foresight, she would know that she is just as before, projecting a feeling of how she should be, yet again, only this time it’s for being a career girl.

If you took her to a commune in the middle of the Chilean rainforest and showed her an epic time in the wilderness full of adventure, she’d do as women do, her identity would just shapeshift to match her surroundings. She would project the feeling she should be a tribal lady or some shit.

This is why you need to LEAD. To take charge, to be the fuckin’ head of the outfit, as a man. This is what wisdom has told us for thousands of years, And yet only now in the past 50 years do we ignore the fuck out of this wisdom in favour of ideological bullshit.

You need to tell her what you want, firm and clear. No ifs or buts or maybes. You tell her you want and expect a family, to be husband and wife, to have children. And you tell her she is free to walk that life with you. But you also tell her, bluntly, to her face, that if she chooses not to, then you and her are finished. Don’t make it a topic that is up for arguing, you leave it there and if she refuses, you break up.

Maybe she’ll project the feeling she should be a mother when she gets old and infertile and watches all her female friends and tiktok influencers have a happy family life while she cannot due to menopause. That’s her fault at that point.

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She maybe doesn't want kids after all?