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>I feel very disrespected and want to confront her, but I don't want it to turn into a huge blow-up.

Let it blow up. You’re a man, so act like one. Do not ever listen to anyone who tries to convince you out of your own gut instincts. Treat them as enemies. Listen to your gut. Your gut is telling you something is fucked. Because it is fucked. You are dating her, and you share a relationship. (you) are 50% of that relationship. And her behaviour has you feeling fucked. So that means 50% of the relationship is fucked.

So show her what fucked looks like. Get angry and confront her. Yeah yeah dont hit her dont verbally abuse her. But get fucking angry and show some spine. You tell her that shit stops, or the relationship stops.

Brace yourself to lose her. In fact be willing to drop her the second she tries to make you into a doormat. Your self-respect is more valuable than she ever will be to you.

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I've been with my gf for almost two years. It's recently come to my attention that she is still in contact with her ex to a somewhat high…