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>I would come off as that annoying clingy guy if I try to pursue others.
Anon, reality check here is that Someone Being That Guy is the only way social interaction actually happens.
People are lazy and way more nervous about social stuff than they pretend to be.
Someone is always the one in every group instigating and organizing things.

Yes, it sucks balls being the least-experienced one AND the one who has to organize everything.
But take it from me, there is no other way. I'm doing it right now and it sucks.
But there isn't any other option. Normies, despite acting very brave and strong in front of each other, are actually scared as fuck of starting any social interaction, and they like each other way less than they say they do, and without somebody doing all the initiation and planning, they end up staying in their house and watching TV or scrolling on their phone.

You have to find people who are willing to "follow the leader" despite the leader being inept, and then practice being the leader.
Get used to the idea because "follower" is only a role for people who have had "leader"-type friends since childhood to attach to. Otherwise, you are the leader, like it or not

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