>>33031889
welcome to the club

>I see every woman now in life as some kind of threat.
the whole #metoo bullshit amplified this feeling for me; even though I am not the kind of person to be that way towards a woman, women simply wield too much power while having the proclivity towards being vindictive and dishonest cunts

>I fear getting into another relationship because I'm afraid she'll get her claws into my heart and backstab me. I thought I moved past the relationship, I don't have any ill feelings against my ex, but maybe not.
14.5 years ago, my first girlfriend lied when she broke up with me on our 1 year anniversary, though we had gone on break (her decision, obviously) for like 2 months of that year
it took me 3 years until I was "over it" enough to consider pursuing another girl; unfortunately, that girl had just come off lithium and had razor scars on her arms, I felt I was not prepared for that
a couple years after that, I was about to ask another girl out and then she said something to the effect of "oh, you hate everything" and I simply gave up

while I haven't seen or spoken to my ex since a couple months after the breakup, she sent messages periodically over the years trying to be friends; 9 years after the breakup she sent a apology for how terrible she had treated me
I am not entirely sure I would go so far to say I hate my ex at this point, I am a bit apprehensive when I go to the city she lives in; I truly never want to speak to her or see her again so long as I live

I haven't had a relationship in those 14.5 years, partly because of this sentiment toward women and partly because of life simply getting worse and worse as time marched on

>Any advice?
you didn't provide any hints as to time / when you got your heart stomped on
if this is a recent thing, you shouldn't rush it
I would however suggest you not let it go on as long as I have, I pretty much have given up hope for a relationship at this point

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