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What do you mean pessimistic, I only said what I've been getting so far.

>Bruh, people are needy and they want you to be there for them
I don't know how to gain people's trust. I would fucking help them if they asked, I would listen if they talked. So far the pattern is I'm doing the chasing and nobody stays.

>Bruh you need to spend time with them, just hangout and be there for them
That implies there's a reason to be around them, like there's something drawing me to them. There really isn't any. I have become so self-reliant people come and go from my life, and the only situation this gives me genuine trouble is falling in love with girls and finding out I don't want to know anything about them but fuck them. It's like those "I can fix her" memes. I wish a girl relies on me because I am confident I could fix the shit on her life, but I couldn't be drawn to abstract stuff like "Ohhh she's so kind to strangers, she's always smiling, she has a determined personality". I couldn't give a fuck, I don't actively look for that in a woman, because I already have shit.

I live in a world of shit. I've had to endure all kinds of shit to stay afloat. I can't easily think of people's dreams and aspirations as important stuff to hold on to. I recognize they are important, I just feel they belong to them and not to me, like I can't ever reach them or be part of anything but my own shit.

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How am I supposed to connect with people and get a girlfriend if I don't care about people?I am aware what I'm supposed to do is…

How am I supposed to connect with people and get a girlfriend if I don't care about people?
I am aware what I'm supposed to do is…