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>It's not beneficial, it just causes more pain and friction
How is it beneficial to suggest someone run from their problems until those problems balloon to a size so large that become unmanageable, and then be forced to either confront much worse problems or end up dying miserable and alone? How doesn't that cause much worse pain and friction? Human needs are universal, you aren't special and lack these needs because of your problems. The inevitable outcome from this course of action, and your needs aren't different than anyone. The only thing that makes you different is that your thinking has become distorted because of personal circumstances, so you seek these non-solutions which hurt you.
>You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped
We do it all the time, when the actions of the person cross the boundaries of immediate left or death for themselves or others we put them in an involuntary psychiatric hold. We also should always try to help people in need instead of telling them it's a-okay to hurt themselves or give up on them.
>grossly misunderstands me
People like you don't want to be understood, or rather you won't let people understand you. Then you complain that no one understands you, that's the problem. If you let people in and were willing to participate in life then maybe you'd feel some real validation for once. You don't want to though, you want to run from the world thinking you can escape it or that your human needs won't go away. That's not how life works.

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how do I truly give up on people, friends, and relationships? >you dont want to do thati am ignoring posts like this

how do I truly give up on people, friends, and relationships?
>you dont want to do that
i am ignoring posts like this