>mom had breast reduction surgery during her early preventing her from being able to breastfeed me as a baby giving me autism
>She was overprotective when i was a child and didn't let me go to friends houses for sleepovers, parties or do anything by myself making me unable to form social skills at a early age
>I was a terrible student, struggled paying attention and dreaded when she helped me with my homework because she had no patient which would make me scared and unable to focus, make more mistakes and she would hit me as a result
>Was diagnosed with autistism as a child but my parents didn't do anything about it because they thought autistim pills would make me kms (almost did anyways)
>Dad provided but was extremely absent from anything i did
>Mom over the years during childhood tried to sign me up to multiple sports but i always said i didn't like it so she never forced me to do anything
>When i got to college age i wanted to start working part time and start developing social skills but and i can't stress enough how much i am not shitting you, my parents talked me out of it to help my mom with whatever she needed at home
>Eventually drop out of college, now i have no friends, no job, no skills, no prospect because of endless shitty parenting decision that dictated my life and now as an adult I have to relearn all the things i wasn't allowed to learn naturally as a child growing up or even in my late teens when I genuinely tried taking responsibility for my life but again wasn't allowed to because i wouldn't have time to drive my mother for groceries
>Parents still shit on me regularly for not doing anything with my life
>But all of this is my fault because it's my life and i have to take responsibility for it
>Every single person always says this exact line

You know what, yes it is my responsibility to change, I just wish i wasn't demonized for not having skills i was dependant on others to learn as a child and have to learn on my own as an adult.

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i despise my parents for refusing to get me into sports as an early teen despite me literally begging for it i dont know how disowning your family…

i despise my parents for refusing to get me into sports as an early teen despite me literally begging for it
i dont know how disowning your family…