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>if she is a narcissist/cluster b, you are probably a co-dependent type. these attract each other because you can self-sacrifice and she gets all the attention she craves.

Okay, I'm not going to go that far in describing my exgf but I definitely see this kind of relationship between us. After breaking up (she needed a marriage after a year for a visa and I couldn't commit) I reflected on our relationship and realised that if I had spoken to her the way she spoke to me, I would have felt bad about it. And also I realised that she showed barely any genuine interest in me, while I knew so much about her, her family, her past etc. It was my first relationship so I didn't have anything to compare it to, but I often felt pretty lonely with her and sometimes felt as though I was walking on eggshells to avoid her being unkind to me. Weirdly enough I posted a thread about it on reddit and someone said I seemed codependent.

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