>be me
>24 year old
>dropped out of community college cause I was lazy, didnt care and only went cause my parents made me
>make 19 an hour as a security guard at Home Depot full time
>parents hate me cause I didnt finish college and soft kicked me out so I had to move
>get my own place, $700 a month in a run down part of town
>seeing this girl (21 years old) for a couple months, hook up a couple times
>get her pregnant (her idea to have me nut in her and have sex with no condom)
>she kept it for some reason even though me and her own family said it wasnt smart to do that
>son was born June 1st, was present for this birth
>I would like to be present in my sons life
>kid has my last name despite the mom of my son not really liking me, only puts up with me because of our son
>her family gives me a cold shoulder when I visit
>dad might be racist towards since I am black, 75% to be exact, but im not sure
>been nothing but nice to these people since ive meet them despite their daughter making romantic advances towards me first
>took up a second job working nights, to bring in more money to support my son
>dont smoke, drink, party or do any non sense, literally just go to the gym, work and hang out with friends sometimes
What does one do in a situation like this? Like im not a deadbeat, nor am I a jobless bum. Im supportive of my son. Will her and her family warm up as time settles in? they act like I ruined her life or something.

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