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>tips on idealizing again?
true love is quality over quantity, you can't force it. think of what you fantasize about, not sexually but romantically. ask yourself what movies or books or characters stood out to you over the years and formed your definition of love? alchemically reduce them, pick out their tropes and archetypes. visit some of those medias again, allow yourself to be sappy about it. feel and interact with those energies: you already have experience doing this with people online, just change out the medium and let yourself feel emotion and fantasy without another person involved. it's like reverse-grounding, musing (from the muses.) artists and writers use the technique to spark creativity and pull inspiration from their subconscious. you can also use it to identify your ideals, and like a hermit on a mountain you can venture back out with your new inspiration. if you do the work and experience growth, your inner changes will reward you with equally-new external choices.

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